If your feminist hackles are rising, it helps to know that men are into submission fantasies, too.
Sex therapists say that actual power-play sex, a step up from fantasy, doesn’t seem harmful, assuming appropriate health and safety precautions are taken. So if your goal is intense pleasure, you may consider some experimentation.
“People measure their self worth with their money and so utilise it as a method of psychological self harm.” Indeed, in our society we are largely defined by our money, and it’s often the marker men use to compare themselves to others.
“Financial domination scoops up this notion of human beings and weaponises it as something kinky.
"Two months ago, I received a message from a guy I’d messaged first. Because I was going away for a week, we had a lot of back and forth before we eventually met.
He seemed kind and interesting; we spoke about everything from family to feminism by way of film.
“The arousal factor comes from the thought of the domme invading the personal space that is your finances,” Steve* explains.It's intimacy, in a very capitalistic and masochistic way,” Steve explains.He believes that most submissives get into findom due to low self-esteem, and they have an “inability to deal with rejection, humiliation, loneliness, fear of being unwanted and redundant in today’s rapid-paced society.” RT IF YOU'RE weak..Since getting out of my first and last adult relationship in 2015, my approach to sex has been unique; I swing almost wildly from asexuality/erotic apathy to craving sex like some sort of female Eros.Generally, I fire up dating apps every three months, speak to a man, go for a drink, sleep with him and don’t speak to him again.